9th Grade – Biceps
Oh, man does this year stand out. First year in high school. We joined back with the MASH group, but this time… we weren’t going to be anonymous anymore. We came out brash. We came out bold. We KNEW we were going to win. If it sounds like I’m more focused on that than God, you have to understand something with me… it all goes hand in hand. We were going to ‘get’ God, whether we wanted to or not. That was a given. But, the competition served as a magnifying glass to all that for me. Others too, I’m sure.
This year houses so many vivid memories for me. Some vague nostalgic items come to mind, but if 8th Grade was a coming out party, 9th Grade taught me a number of valuable lessons.
This may have been the most intense year we had as a group. Competition was fierce, God was working and we were freshman. A perfect storm of tension. So much so, that we even came up with a stupid cheer/chant/’thing’ that confused everyone at first… until it caught on.
TENSION BREAKER!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!
If you were part of us… you know EXACTLY what that means.
I remember meeting a friend of Anne Marie Bellomy from Coppell and we hit it off really well. (Camp crushes are great J.) I also remember our camp shirts. Every year, we have a camp shirt. Most are regular T-shirts. Well… this one wasn’t a shirt, but a scrub top. The theme that year was Operation… so they gave us scrub tops. Still have mine tucked away somewhere.
I also remember my sister, Marlena, being a senior and winning Favorite Girl camper. I thought that was the coolest thing. There are 300+ kids there… and my big sister was voted as the favorite girl. She was nice to everyone. She was infectious with her laugh, personality and all the boys liked her. J I remember getting a lot of grief because my sister was ‘fine’. Let’s just say, having an attractive sister is murder on a brother. She transcended the ‘popular’ crowd and people identified with her. That stuck with me.
Talent Show… yeah, that was cool. One thing about our group… we were creative. And we usually had good, strong, creative leaders. Well… one of our leaders had an idea for a human puppeteer-style talent show. Some people would be puppeteering the human puppets, but with no strings. It all had to be timed perfectly. The cool thing was we chose a song (Shout from Animal House) that built slowly and continually. The progam had to do the same. And oh man, did it. Song choice is MONUMENTAL when it comes to Talent Show and we nailed it. Not only was it just cool (words don’t really do it justice), but it actually broke the rules for the show. Before the show, the leaders made it clear that this year’s Talent Show was being videotaped, so as much as people wanted to stand and cheer, they shouldn’t because it would block the camera.
Well… as our performance kept building, the energy in the place kept rising. And rising. About 2/3 way through, the rest of us puppets came alive (with rosy red cheeks and all) and got the crowd up and dancing. I remember I worked my way to someone (Melissa McCrory, I think) and pulled her up to start dancing. Once that happened…. The floodgates opened and everyone got up and danced, cheered etc and completely blocked the camera’s view. The place exploded. Not only was it a cool idea… it was just plain FUN. If I’m not mistaken, our winning performance (yes, it won) is the only one that DIDN’T make it onto the camp video that year.
My last vivid memory? This was the year I cried myself to sleep. For those who know me… really know me… you know I’m actually a big baby. I don’t show it much, but when I emotionally invest in things (and I always did at Camp), the pendulum swings high and far, one way or the other. Well… we poured ourselves into everything, and there was one group who we were battling. (This would be a theme the rest of our years at camp)… our counterparts… the 9th/10th Grade Girls. If there was a ‘Camp Rivalry’, this was it. It was friendly… but oh man, it was palpable and real. During the Friday night awards ceremony, they announced all the winners from Spirit Stick to Favorite Camper to best Family Group… until the big dawg: Best Camp Group. We were a shoo-in. Never crossed our minds that we wouldn’t win. Until we didn’t. I still think whoever counted up those points must’ve forgotten to carry the one or something, but we lost to our nemesis… and that HURT.
Like I said… when I emotionally invest in something, emotions can go from crazy high to crazy low… and dangit… it sure did. I had no interest in doing any of the night time activities. Many of us didn’t, actually. Of course, we all griped and whined about how unfair it was and we got screwed and yadda yadda… But, I remember that night as much as any other night I had at any year of any camp. I was torn up because we didn’t win. Maybe it’s because I never considered the idea we wouldn’t. Lesson learned.
But, yes ladies and gentlemen… I cried myself to sleep that night.
Now, some may argue and say, “See? That’s why you shouldn’t focus so much on that stuff….” And to that I say? Irrelevant. It was a valuable lesson. It’s ok to be disappointed. Life isn’t full of winners. People DO lose. And while it hurt… it never became more important than what I was there for… to get closer to God. If anything, it gave me even more of a reason to turn to Him at that time. I knew it wasn’t the end of the world, but it sure sucked. It’s all about perspective, people.
Anyone who knows me, knows I never shorted the God-centric part of camp. I went full-bore into all aspects, and I was/am fully aware of what’s really important vs. not. But, once you decide to invest yourself into something, how can you help but let it effect you? Maybe that’s why I remember so much. (I wish I remembered more.) I invested myself so much into camp because I loved it so much. Even if that meant crying myself to sleep…
10th Grade – The Untouchables
One of the best parts of Camp is the lead-up. The prep. It’s kind of like training camp in the NFL where everyone thinks they have a chance. Everyone has hope. All plans sound great.
Oops.
When we gathered after Sunday night service to hear the camp theme and pick names, that's when Camp started. Groups would huddle together, making sure no one could hear their ideas for a name. The excitement and tension was electric. We went through a lot of different ideas, but settled on some a name that fit. A name that totally captured what we were. A name so cocky, we'd have no choice but to live up to it: The Untouchables. (sense a bit of overconfidence here?)
That right there began the perfect storm of disaster...
So, when we decided we’d be The Untouchables, many of us gathered in the CRC to watch the movie and get ideas we could use during camp. Near the start of the movie, a Chicago gangster is seen in a diner with a briefcase. Shortly after introducing his character, he gets up and leaves. Next thing you know, a young boy notices he left it, so he grabs it and runs about 20 feet outside the diner, yelling, “Mr., Mr.! You forgot your briefcase!” Right then, the case explodes and destroys what looks like half a city block.
To a room of high school sophomores and freshmen, this was like the Easter Bunny and Tooth Fairy went to Disney World and had a baby named Santa Claus. We cracked up laughing and thought it was the best thing ever! Sadly… that would be the highlight to a major letdown of a year at camp.
We all bought suits for the week so we could look like gangsters. (I’m telling you… we went ALL OUT for this stuff.) Of course, most of us got our suits at the Goodwill store for $5 or something, but you’ve gotta be pretty ‘into it’ to wear a full 3-piece suit voluntarily in the hot Texas summer.
All our ideas seemed to flop. This was the group that struck gold with the Hillbillies. If the Biceps were strong, this group was going to erupt like no group ever did before.
Instead of exploding… we imploded.
Talent Show was set to Janet Jackson’s ‘Alright with Me’ song. (No wardrobe malfunctions here!) We tried for some weird mash-up of dancing and a cool background cityscape. Basically, we tried to emulate the music video.
Sounded good on paper, at least. Aside from looking rather dapper all week in our suits and gangster hats, very little went right. Of all my years at camp, this was by far the biggest letdown. Not only from a competitive standpoint, but I had allergy issues so bad that week, I wasn’t healthy enough to enjoy much of what camp had to offer that year. Couple that with some personal issues I had my sophomore year, and I was just a depressed, allergy ridden, hormonal dude who struggled the entire week.
I DO remember meeting Todd Warner that year. I think he was in my family group. Either way, he was two years older than me and we hit it off really well. I grew to be great friends with him and his family. They still hold a special place in my heart. At the end of the week, Todd floored me with something too. He told me he voted for ME as favorite camper. I can’t begin to tell you how good that felt. A senior voted for ME as his favorite. Cool…
The other thing I remember is Brad McMullen and his curly semi-fro.
God bless Brad.
Something about 10th grade boys makes them probably the most difficult group to deal with. Between dealing w/ our inherent bravado, we were in an awkward spot. We weren’t the Alpha males in school, but we were able to bully around the freshman. J Looking back at all my years at camp, it seems the one grade that seemed to struggle the most year after year were the sophomores. And we weren’t immune.
But, Brad would stay even keel. Rarely did he get too upset. He didn’t seem to focus much on the competition side of things, but would support our efforts. That’s not to say he’s not competitive. Play softball with him, and you’ll know he is. But, of all the leaders we had, he seemed to be the least ‘directive’ and the most pliable. Relaxed. He gave us the rope to either catch what we wanted or hang ourselves.
Fitting, as 'gangsters' we turned it into a noose. I learned a lot from that. It wasn’t his job to push us… he let us push ourselves, and we didn’t do a good job. We were responsible for how things went… not him. He made sure we focused on Christ that week, even when things didn’t go our way.
Anyone who’s ever had Brad as a leader will quickly remember… “I am third.”
God. Our family. Ourselves. When it came time to do something, he drilled into our heads, “I am third.” Other people are the priority. Not ourselves. That taught me humility (don’t laugh J). To this day, I carry that lesson with me. He lived that. Still does. He’s a Godly man who never got the respect he deserved from us that year. We liked him… but I’ve grown to love him.
The other ‘Brad-ism’? We would sit in a circle in the middle room and have devotions/talks/whatever. But, how do you keep everyone from talking over each other? A tennis ball, of course. Yep… only the person with the ball could speak. Didn’t have the ball? Keep your mouth shut. It was funny, and we secretly made fun of the concept, but dang, it worked!
So… respect. Humility. Self-discipline/leadership. Even a ‘lost’ year at camp teaches and reinforces lifelong lessons.
I honestly don’t remember much else about that year. I remember taking my biggest crush to dinner the night we invited her group out. That was cool… but I was so hot and sweaty in my gangster suit, I probably smelled like that pig I caught two years earlier.
I guess I was so loopy with allergy medicine, much of that week was a general haze for me. But, you know? It was still Camp.